How to grow my romantic relationship. What kind of relationship do you want to have? Do you know the kinds of things you long to see in your relationship? Here’s the truth: many of us do not know what we want in a relationship. We have not been able to articulate these things in words. If I asked you the… Read More

Hey friends, Welcome back to the Relationship Secrets Series. My sincere apologies for the brief break in transmission. We are back! Your openness to the work of healing and restoration will directly affect the health of your relationship. Most of us have had one or more unsavoury experiences from our past and may have been carrying those same pains and… Read More

How to apologise in a Christian relationship Hey friend, Hope you’ve been enjoying the series. I have a few questions for you today: How are you with apologising? Is it something you are quick to do, or do you need Jesus to come down from heaven for you to say, “I’m sorry”? ? When you apologise, do you mean it,… Read More

How to ask the right questions in your relationship Over the past few days, we have talked about many approaches to getting to know and understand your partner. The truth is that you can’t learn everything about someone at once, but over time, you can learn the things that matter. Additionally, this process of understanding has many facets and calls… Read More

How to master your partner’s love language A few days ago, we talked about a woman’s role in supporting the vision and dreams of her man. Today we take this further by discussing the need to study your partner to understand them better. This includes finding out their dominant love and life language. Here’s Rob and Stella’s story: Rob is… Read More

How to support your partner’s vision, growth, and dreams. Hey friend, how have you been finding this relationship series? We would love to know. Please share in the comments or via email. You can also find all the days here. In yesterday’s post, we mentioned how God created Eve to support Adam. It was God who said “…it is not… Read More

What is your role in a relationship? When you think about the story of Adam and Eve, what’s the first thing that comes to mind- their beginning or the fall? We tend to focus on the fall but when God created Adam and Eve there was a clear purpose (See Genesis 2: 15 – the end). Adam was called to… Read More

How to build up your relationship. In yesterday’s post, we discussed how our thought patterns affect our actions, and we used Simi’s story to illustrate this (you can read it here). Today, we discuss the power of not only thinking positively but speaking positively. Have you ever met people who always seem to complain about their partners? When you’re around… Read More

How do our thought patterns affect our relationships?   “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he…” Proverbs 23:7 How you think will not only affect your actions but will also determine how you relate with others. Which means our thought patterns are the building blocks of our actions and words. What are the things that preoccupy your… Read More