Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
I’ve been learning about these two concepts — dating and courting — and I thought to share what I’ve discovered. While “dating” is the common term we all know today, it’s actually quite new in history. The first reference to “dating” showed up in a women’s journal in 1914, and since then, the idea has spread rapidly, shaping how modern… Read More
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been writing a lot about God’s incredible love for us. And honestly, I don’t think we can ever exhaust this subject. Why? Because love is not just an abstract concept. It’s not just about the “big gestures” we celebrate at weddings or anniversaries. Love is in the daily choices we make—to reflect God’s heart,… Read More
A thought crossed my mind the other day: I’m the only one from the friend group at my first job who is still single(men included). I’m not in touch with most of them anymore. Some have moved on to better things, others have relocated. But I couldn’t help noticing that, out of the 13 or so of us, I’m the… Read More
One of the biggest lies the devil peddles is that we are not worthy. He points to our failures and whispers that our sins have made us “persona non grata” with God. His conclusion? It’s best we don’t even bother going to Him. And do you know the sad part? We often believe his lies, because they are laced with… Read More
Let’s call her Ada. Ada met Tunde after church one Sunday. He was warm, funny, and seemed serious about his faith. He served on the ushering team, quoted Scripture with ease, and often said he wanted a God centered relationship. A few months in, the tone began to shift. Tunde started pressing Ada about sex. It began with small comments…. Read More
Just the other day, I came across an IG page of a couple who were recently married. In one of her posts, the wife shared a reel about their first year together. It wasn’t just photos, t was a map, showing all the places she and her husband had travelled to as newlyweds. I caught myself saying: “Oh, now I… Read More
There are moments when the thought sneaks in: Maybe I missed my chance. Maybe it was that relationship I walked away from. Maybe it was because I was too focused on my career or too picky. Or maybe it’s simply because I’m not as young as I used to be. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, you’re not alone. For… Read More
Every relationship, whether dating, engaged, or married, comes with demands. There will be responsibilities, expectations, and countless to-do lists. Sometimes, it’s so easy to get caught up in those demands that we neglect the very thing that gives our relationship life in the first place. The idea of keeping first things first is simple but profound: Remember what matters most… Read More
One important factor for growth in any relationship is coming to terms with this simple reality: you and your partner are different. Even siblings raised under the same roof often have very different personalities, mannerisms, likes, and dislikes. If that’s true for people who share the same parents, how much more true will it be for two people from entirely… Read More
