Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Welcome back to the Relationship Secrets Series. I started this series in 2023 with a plan to share 30 christian relationship tips. I was only able to share 18 then, but have now decided to restart this series and complete the series (as part of my 100 blog posts in 100 days challenge). You can check out the other 18… Read More
Okay, I’m about to say something that might ruffle a few feathers. What if what you think you want is the very thing you don’t need? The other day, I watched Irish Wish, a rom-com starring Lindsay Lohan. It’s the kind of movie you watch when you need something lighthearted with a little magic. In it, Lindsay’s character is secretly… Read More
I remember a conversation I had with one of my aunties, a few years ago. We were chatting and then she said something along the lines of: “Your cousin is now married and has a child.” She said this looking intently at me. I smiled and acknowledged her statement, thanking God for blessing our family. To any other person, this… Read More
At this point, we can all probably recite the words of Proverbs 4:23: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23 NIV It’s a powerful verse that teaches on boundaries, but I believe it has not always been stewarded well. Many times, we look at this verse from the lens of the world… Read More
There are days when the desire for marriage feels like a quiet ache. And then there are days when it feels like a full-body heaviness, like a silent prayer you’ve whispered for so long that your voice has started to shake. I know this weight. I know what it’s like to wonder if God hears, to fight off the creeping… Read More
One of the most interesting parts of my journey as a Christian woman in my late 30s has been how my prayers about marriage have changed over the years. In my 20s, I prayed with excitement and expectation, but also with a hint of impatience. I had a picture in my head of what marriage should look like, and I… Read More
How to avoid our tendency to overthink in our relationship. We have shared quite a bit these past few weeks, and there is a tendency that we may become overwhelmed by the information or the depth of what is required in a kingdom relationship. I certainly understand this. We may even wonder if any relationship is worth this amount of… Read More
How to select a marriage mentor One of the best pieces of advice I received about godly relationships is that you should have someone who can hold you and your partner accountable to your responsibilities in the relationship. Let me explain. The Need for Accountability Accountability is the means of holding a person to their words and actions. As… Read More
How to prepare for marriage One of the secrets to a Christian relationship and a kingdom marriage is to be prepared for it. Preparation is the pathway to understanding and flourishing in what you are praying for. It is a bit more than that – it is the assurance (but for the grace of God) that you will pass the… Read More
