Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Let’s call her Ada. Ada met Tunde after church one Sunday. He was warm, funny, and seemed serious about his faith. He served on the ushering team, quoted Scripture with ease, and often said he wanted a God centered relationship. A few months in, the tone began to shift. Tunde started pressing Ada about sex. It began with small comments…. Read More
Just the other day, I came across an IG page of a couple who were recently married. In one of her posts, the wife shared a reel about their first year together. It wasn’t just photos, t was a map, showing all the places she and her husband had travelled to as newlyweds. I caught myself saying: “Oh, now I… Read More
There are moments when the thought sneaks in: Maybe I missed my chance. Maybe it was that relationship I walked away from. Maybe it was because I was too focused on my career or too picky. Or maybe it’s simply because I’m not as young as I used to be. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, you’re not alone. For… Read More
Every relationship, whether dating, engaged, or married, comes with demands. There will be responsibilities, expectations, and countless to-do lists. Sometimes, it’s so easy to get caught up in those demands that we neglect the very thing that gives our relationship life in the first place. The idea of keeping first things first is simple but profound: Remember what matters most… Read More
One important factor for growth in any relationship is coming to terms with this simple reality: you and your partner are different. Even siblings raised under the same roof often have very different personalities, mannerisms, likes, and dislikes. If that’s true for people who share the same parents, how much more true will it be for two people from entirely… Read More
Welcome back to the Relationship Secrets Series. I started this series in 2023 with a plan to share 30 christian relationship tips. I was only able to share 18 then, but have now decided to restart this series and complete the series (as part of my 100 blog posts in 100 days challenge). You can check out the other 18… Read More
Okay, I’m about to say something that might ruffle a few feathers. What if what you think you want is the very thing you don’t need? The other day, I watched Irish Wish, a rom-com starring Lindsay Lohan. It’s the kind of movie you watch when you need something lighthearted with a little magic. In it, Lindsay’s character is secretly… Read More
I remember a conversation I had with one of my aunties, a few years ago. We were chatting and then she said something along the lines of: “Your cousin is now married and has a child.” She said this looking intently at me. I smiled and acknowledged her statement, thanking God for blessing our family. To any other person, this… Read More
At this point, we can all probably recite the words of Proverbs 4:23: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23 NIV It’s a powerful verse that teaches on boundaries, but I believe it has not always been stewarded well. Many times, we look at this verse from the lens of the world… Read More
