There are a few theories out there on why women over a certain age are not married. Many of these may be stereotypical while others hold some truth. I will be focusing on one of the most important reasons for why some single women are not married. Before I go ahead, I want you to know this was hard to… Read More
Letting go of your brokenness
Do you believe that God loves you unconditionally and died to save you from a life of bondage and hopelessness? Do you live like you believe this? I ask these questions because I have seen that many of us are still lost, we are still burdened by our past hurts and mistakes. We walk around with this weight. An invisible… Read More
Real life struggles of Single Women
As a single woman, I have realized that there are certain struggles that are unique to us – the pressures to settle down. These external and internal pressures to settle down may cause us to feel inadequate and unwanted. On the one hand, there are hordes of people questioning our single status. Then there are moments when we question ourselves… Read More
Making sense of our struggles with Anger
Isn’t it interesting how we often pray for peace yet, we tear it down with our thoughts and actions? It’s almost like there is an invisible tussle between who we want to be and who we are. This is no more visible than in the way we manage our relationships. I have written quite a bit about relationships but wanted… Read More
Understanding Sex: Conversations for Christians and the Church
Is sex good or bad? This was a question I asked myself, many times while growing up. The information I received was usually conflicting and most peoples’ reaction to sex didn’t help. For a long time, I couldn’t even use the word in public. I would usually look for variations or infer it. Through my actions, it was obvious… Read More
Some tough love for today’s Christian Woman
Hello sweet friend, there are a few things I would like us to talk about, things we both know but probably don’t hear enough or are quick to forget. It’s about being honest and open. Do you ever wonder why there aren’t more Christian women having open and honest conversations about their lives and struggles? I definitely have and think… Read More
Seven Biblical Truths for Christian Women
Do you realise you were intentionally created in God’s image? That before you were formed in the womb God had a purpose and plan for your life? I used to think women were created as an afterthought. But on further reading, I realized that God intended to create us and he did so in his image. Hallelujah! Here are seven… Read More
Pursuing your dreams as a single woman
You may be wondering why the particular focus on pursuing our dreams as single women and the answer is simple. As single women, we are likely to inhibit our dreams and goals (whether knowingly or unknowingly), in a quest for marriage and a family of our own. Do you agree with this? Your answer may be a yes, a no… Read More
Three things to do on your birthday
Birthdays are such a special time in our lives. It is one day when people celebrate us and even those who don’t necessarily like us, are civil. But have you ever wondered about the things to do on your birthday? Depending on those around you, you may receive cards, gifts, and lots of good wishes. You may even get some… Read More








