One of the realities of being a single Christian woman is dealing with sexual temptation and sexual pressures. Perhaps, you have wondered how to manage a relationship where your boyfriend wants to sleep with you. Or maybe you just want to understand the Christian view of sex before marriage. If so, please read on. The reality of sexual temptation and… Read More
Five qualities you need in your future husband
Relationships are important. You know this and have probably heard it countless times. But did you know that every single relationship we have requires some work? This is certainly true for romantic relationships. Though it is easier said than done. While we want to have the best relationships, we may not always know how to achieve this or the sort… Read More
Four ways to know he’s Mr. Wrong
Would you agree with me that there is a whole lot of drama when it comes to dating including Christian dating? The problem areas are usually around our choice to date and to remain in that relationship. Many times, we’re not sure if we should continue or call it quits. Well, I’m about to add to your drama with this:… Read More
Three things you need to know before you date
Have you ever wondered if there are different dating rules for Christian women? For instance, should we even date or would we someday meet the man God has for us and marry him without dating? For me, dating was one of those things I was reluctant to do. I believed that people could get married from being friends and didn’t… Read More
This is why you’re not married
There are a few theories out there on why women over a certain age are not married. Many of these may be stereotypical while others hold some truth. I will be focusing on one of the most important reasons for why some single women are not married. Before I go ahead, I want you to know this was hard to… Read More
Letting go of your brokenness
Do you believe that God loves you unconditionally and died to save you from a life of bondage and hopelessness? Do you live like you believe this? I ask these questions because I have seen that many of us are still lost, we are still burdened by our past hurts and mistakes. We walk around with this weight. An invisible… Read More
Real life struggles of Single Women
As a single woman, I have realized that there are certain struggles that are unique to us – the pressures to settle down. These external and internal pressures to settle down may cause us to feel inadequate and unwanted. On the one hand, there are hordes of people questioning our single status. Then there are moments when we question ourselves… Read More
Making sense of our struggles with Anger
Isn’t it interesting how we often pray for peace yet, we tear it down with our thoughts and actions? It’s almost like there is an invisible tussle between who we want to be and who we are. This is no more visible than in the way we manage our relationships. I have written quite a bit about relationships but wanted… Read More
Understanding Sex: Conversations for Christians and the Church
Is sex good or bad? This was a question I asked myself, many times while growing up. The information I received was usually conflicting and most peoples’ reaction to sex didn’t help. For a long time, I couldn’t even use the word in public. I would usually look for variations or infer it. Through my actions, it was obvious… Read More








