Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Every love story is told in community. No one falls in love in a vacuum. We all have families, friends, mentors, and even social media audiences who have something to say about our relationships. But one of the keys to a healthy courtship is learning how to handle these outside voices. Genesis 2:24 says: “That is why a man leaves… Read More
Prayer is not just a spiritual activity we tick off our to-do list; it is the very oxygen of a Christian relationship. When two people come together in courtship, prayer becomes both the lifeline and compass that sustains them as they move toward marriage. The Bible says in Proverbs 3:5–6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean… Read More
One of the biggest lies the devil peddles is that we are not worthy. He points to our failures and whispers that our sins have made us “persona non grata” with God. His conclusion? It’s best we don’t even bother going to Him. And do you know the sad part? We often believe his lies, because they are laced with… Read More
Have you ever been asked, “what do you want in a man?” Perhaps, you may have even asked yourself this question a few times. How did you answer it? Here is what this lady, let’s call her Bisi, listed out as her ideal man: “He has to be tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, spirit-filled, emotionally intelligent, a prayer warrior, financially secure,… Read More
Let’s call her Ada. Ada met Tunde after church one Sunday. He was warm, funny, and seemed serious about his faith. He served on the ushering team, quoted Scripture with ease, and often said he wanted a God centered relationship. A few months in, the tone began to shift. Tunde started pressing Ada about sex. It began with small comments…. Read More
I remember a season when I felt I had finally broken through in prayer. For months, I was consistent. Midnight prayers became my rhythm. I would pour out my heart before God and spend time in praise, it felt as if my spirit was being strengthened daily. But then came the dip. I went from vibrant midnight intercessions to struggling… Read More
Just the other day, I came across an IG page of a couple who were recently married. In one of her posts, the wife shared a reel about their first year together. It wasn’t just photos, t was a map, showing all the places she and her husband had travelled to as newlyweds. I caught myself saying: “Oh, now I… Read More
There are moments when the thought sneaks in: Maybe I missed my chance. Maybe it was that relationship I walked away from. Maybe it was because I was too focused on my career or too picky. Or maybe it’s simply because I’m not as young as I used to be. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, you’re not alone. For… Read More
There’s a phrase that’s become popular online: “match their energy.” It simply means treating people the way they treat you. If they’re kind, be kind. If they’re cold, be cold. If they ignore you, ignore them right back. At first, it sounds like good advice. After all, who wants to feel like the only one giving in a friendship, relationship,… Read More
