Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Let’s call her Ada. Ada met Tunde after church one Sunday. He was warm, funny, and seemed serious about his faith. He served on the ushering team, quoted Scripture with ease, and often said he wanted a God centered relationship. A few months in, the tone began to shift. Tunde started pressing Ada about sex. It began with small comments…. Read More
I remember a season when I felt I had finally broken through in prayer. For months, I was consistent. Midnight prayers became my rhythm. I would pour out my heart before God and spend time in praise, it felt as if my spirit was being strengthened daily. But then came the dip. I went from vibrant midnight intercessions to struggling… Read More
Just the other day, I came across an IG page of a couple who were recently married. In one of her posts, the wife shared a reel about their first year together. It wasn’t just photos, t was a map, showing all the places she and her husband had travelled to as newlyweds. I caught myself saying: “Oh, now I… Read More
There are moments when the thought sneaks in: Maybe I missed my chance. Maybe it was that relationship I walked away from. Maybe it was because I was too focused on my career or too picky. Or maybe it’s simply because I’m not as young as I used to be. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, you’re not alone. For… Read More
There’s a phrase that’s become popular online: “match their energy.” It simply means treating people the way they treat you. If they’re kind, be kind. If they’re cold, be cold. If they ignore you, ignore them right back. At first, it sounds like good advice. After all, who wants to feel like the only one giving in a friendship, relationship,… Read More
I still remember an older woman once telling me, “Your hair is turning grey, you need to get married soon.” She was dead serious. Her reasoning? Grey hair would make it harder to find a husband. And sadly, she wasn’t entirely wrong about how society thinks. Our culture is often unkind to women as we age. It frowns on the… Read More
Have you ever had a dream where you felt like you were under attack? Maybe you were being chased, or something was trying to harm you. You wanted to call on the name of Jesus, but no matter how hard you tried, the words just wouldn’t come out. And then, finally, when you managed to whisper His name, you woke… Read More
Every relationship, whether dating, engaged, or married, comes with demands. There will be responsibilities, expectations, and countless to-do lists. Sometimes, it’s so easy to get caught up in those demands that we neglect the very thing that gives our relationship life in the first place. The idea of keeping first things first is simple but profound: Remember what matters most… Read More
One important factor for growth in any relationship is coming to terms with this simple reality: you and your partner are different. Even siblings raised under the same roof often have very different personalities, mannerisms, likes, and dislikes. If that’s true for people who share the same parents, how much more true will it be for two people from entirely… Read More
