Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been writing a lot about God’s incredible love for us. And honestly, I don’t think we can ever exhaust this subject. Why? Because love is not just an abstract concept. It’s not just about the “big gestures” we celebrate at weddings or anniversaries. Love is in the daily choices we make—to reflect God’s heart,… Read More
When we think about love and relationships, many people picture romance, butterflies in the stomach, and sweet words whispered in quiet moments. But let me be honest with you, romance alone cannot sustain a relationship. The true secret to building a lasting relationship is not just love or attraction, but friendship. Romance can spark a flame, but friendship is what… Read More
This relationship secrets series would be incomplete without broaching the subject of submission. I can’t deny that this is one of the hardest things for us as women. The very word submission often conjures fears: Will I still be enough? Will I be seen and valued? Does this mean I am less than a man? Maybe you can’t relate to… Read More
Have you noticed something universal about humans? We love to correct other people. We are quick to highlight someone else’s mistake and share our solicited (and often unsolicited) advice. In those moments, we play the sage; the voice of wisdom who knows the right way forward. But if we’re honest, there’s an intriguing reality: We don’t always practice what we… Read More
A thought crossed my mind the other day: I’m the only one from the friend group at my first job who is still single(men included). I’m not in touch with most of them anymore. Some have moved on to better things, others have relocated. But I couldn’t help noticing that, out of the 13 or so of us, I’m the… Read More
Every love story is told in community. No one falls in love in a vacuum. We all have families, friends, mentors, and even social media audiences who have something to say about our relationships. But one of the keys to a healthy courtship is learning how to handle these outside voices. Genesis 2:24 says: “That is why a man leaves… Read More
Prayer is not just a spiritual activity we tick off our to-do list; it is the very oxygen of a Christian relationship. When two people come together in courtship, prayer becomes both the lifeline and compass that sustains them as they move toward marriage. The Bible says in Proverbs 3:5–6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean… Read More
One of the biggest lies the devil peddles is that we are not worthy. He points to our failures and whispers that our sins have made us “persona non grata” with God. His conclusion? It’s best we don’t even bother going to Him. And do you know the sad part? We often believe his lies, because they are laced with… Read More
Have you ever been asked, “what do you want in a man?” Perhaps, you may have even asked yourself this question a few times. How did you answer it? Here is what this lady, let’s call her Bisi, listed out as her ideal man: “He has to be tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, spirit-filled, emotionally intelligent, a prayer warrior, financially secure,… Read More
