Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
We prepare for many things in life; careers, business ventures, ministry, even motherhood. Yet when it comes to marriage, we often assume that love alone will be enough. We long for a godly husband, a peaceful home, and a thriving relationship, but rarely pause to ask: Am I becoming the kind of woman God is calling me to be? Becoming… Read More
Living with my family has been a blessing that I cannot fully express, but it has also come at a cost. Being an older single, almost 40 and still living at home, can often feel like a case of failure to launch (yes, just like that old Matthew McConaughey movie, or how SJR once described it). You’re thankful to have… Read More
I remember listening to a story by a Christian Youtuber who shared that when she got engaged, the Lord impressed upon her heart not to have sex with her fiance. It wasn’t like she had planned to, but the imprint was so strong that during a moment of weakness, when she may have otherwise succumbed, that reminder helped her stay… Read More
When many of us think about preparing for marriage, our minds often run to the practical things. Learn how to cook. Save money. Decorate your home. Maybe even pick up a few “how to be a good wife” books. And while all of those have their place, marriage requires preparation that goes much deeper than outward skills. What I wish… Read More
I remember hearing someone once say: “The loudest voice you will ever hear is the one inside your head.” And I have found this to be true. We live in a world where opinions are everywhere. Family members, friends, colleagues, even strangers online, often feel entitled to tell us what we should be doing with our lives. For single women,… Read More
Why Faithfulness Matters More Than Ever Faithfulness is often overlooked in our fast-paced, “move on if it doesn’t work” culture. But for the Christian woman, faithfulness is at the very core of walking with God. It means staying true to Him, His Word, and His calling, even when life feels slow, hard, or uncertain. For single women, faithfulness often looks… Read More
As my 40th birthday draws closer, I’ve been thinking a lot about the path I’ve walked; the highs and lows, the waiting seasons, the lessons I didn’t know I needed, and the unexpected ways God has shaped me. I never imagined that I would be single at this stage of life. And yet, here I am not less than, not… Read More
Have you ever celebrated someone outwardly but felt the sting of comparison inside? A few years ago, I reconnected online with two ladies I used to know growing up. We were neighbours once, and because I was a few years older, I often looked after them when we went out. Fast forward many years, I found their social media accounts…. Read More
If there’s one fruit of the Spirit that feels especially tested in singleness, it’s self-control. From managing emotions to setting healthy relationship boundaries, we singles face countless opportunities to either lean on God’s Spirit or give in to frustration and compromise. Self-control is not just about saying “no” to sin, it’s about saying “yes” to God’s way, even when it’s… Read More
