In the last relationship secret, we talked about the importance of knowing God for yourself. Your walk with Him cannot depend on your partner’s devotion. But when two people who know God individually come together, something powerful happens: they can seek Him collectively and align their relationship with His vision. Why vision matters in courtship […]
RS27 – Seeking God Personally: The Foundation of a Godly Courtship
Do you know God for yourself? Can you confidently say that your relationship with God stands on its own, independent of your partner, your pastor, or even your parents? This is so important, especially in a season of courtship or engagement. Your partner can inspire you, encourage you, and even model intimacy with God, but […]
Have you counted the cost of marriage?
The world sold us a lie. A lie wrapped in romance, fairytales, and impossible loves. From Disney princesses to rom-coms, the script is often the same: a handsome man swoops in, sweeps the woman off her feet, and they ride into the sunset to “happily ever after.” But no one tells you what happens after […]
The Difference Between Dating and Courting — And Which to Choose
I’ve been learning about these two concepts — dating and courting — and I thought to share what I’ve discovered. While “dating” is the common term we all know today, it’s actually quite new in history. The first reference to “dating” showed up in a women’s journal in 1914, and since then, the idea has […]
Do what God called you to do
When God calls you, you may not know what’s next. In fact, most times, it won’t make sense. But best believe this; He always has a plan, and it is always for our good. When the Lord called me out of my full-time career, I wrestled. I couldn’t see the full picture, and the fears […]
Seven things love will do for You
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been writing a lot about God’s incredible love for us. And honestly, I don’t think we can ever exhaust this subject. Why? Because love is not just an abstract concept. It’s not just about the “big gestures” we celebrate at weddings or anniversaries. Love is in the daily choices […]
Relationship Secret 25: Building Friendship for Healthy Conflict Resolution
When we think about love and relationships, many people picture romance, butterflies in the stomach, and sweet words whispered in quiet moments. But let me be honest with you, romance alone cannot sustain a relationship. The true secret to building a lasting relationship is not just love or attraction, but friendship. Romance can spark a […]
RS25 – Your Submission makes Room for Your Joy and Elevation
This relationship secrets series would be incomplete without broaching the subject of submission. I can’t deny that this is one of the hardest things for us as women. The very word submission often conjures fears: Will I still be enough? Will I be seen and valued? Does this mean I am less than a man? […]
When You don’t Practice What You Preach
Have you noticed something universal about humans? We love to correct other people. We are quick to highlight someone else’s mistake and share our solicited (and often unsolicited) advice. In those moments, we play the sage; the voice of wisdom who knows the right way forward. But if we’re honest, there’s an intriguing reality: We […]
When you’re the only single one in your friend group
A thought crossed my mind the other day: I’m the only one from the friend group at my first job who is still single(men included). I’m not in touch with most of them anymore. Some have moved on to better things, others have relocated. But I couldn’t help noticing that, out of the 13 or […]
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