I think one of the buzzwords for our generation is self-development, and for good reason. Our ability to develop ourselves and improve our productivity directly affects the quality and texture of our lives. And it does not matter if we are single or married. However, I am focusing on us single gals because what matters is not that we are… Read More
10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
Have you ever considered the things that make a relationship healthy? Do you ever lookout for signs of an unhealthy relationship? But before we get to these, let’s start from the beginning: What was your vision of romance, growing up? Perhaps, like me, you grew up on harlequin novels and hallmark movies; those gave us a picturesque view of love… Read More
10 Meaningful Ways to travel as a Single Woman
Ever had visions of you lounging by the beach with a drink in your hand and a book waiting to be read? Dreams of you walking through historic buildings, visiting the tomb of Christ, while also enjoying an array of delectable dishes? If you’re anything like me, then you love to travel. You love the chance to see different places… Read More
Letter to the single girl who feels unloved and forgotten
Dear one, I know you see them; the couples, the newlyweds, all those who seem to be in love and have it all. You see the beauty around you and wonder why your life is different. Why you are all alone and why no one sees you or wants you? In those moments, it’s easy to think you don’t matter…. Read More
Four Valentine’s Day truths for single women
Valentine’s Day is one of those days when we are caught in a web of hope and emptiness. A hope for love and romance, and an inescapable emptiness when we don’t get it. There are times when we act like it means nothing but there is usually that niggling reminder that we would rather be in a relationship and share… Read More
12 Lies that hurt us and the truth that sets us free
There are many lies that we have heard and quite a few we have believed. Some of these lies are dressed so prettily that it’s almost impossible to detect them for what they are: falsehoods that have been perpetuated, knowingly and unknowingly, to deceive and confuse us. Now, the scary thing is that some of these lies relate to our… Read More
A Single Woman’s Dilemma – Eva’s Story (Part 2)
Read Part One yet? You can do so here. People often say our families are the one set of people we are stuck with forever. In good and in bad, we must remain, and on some days, I understand this. Afterall, I want to believe God had a reason for putting me in mine. Then, there are other days, such… Read More
A Single Woman’s Dilemma – Eva’s Story (Part 1)
As I walked into the gathering, silver stilettos against the white washed marble floors, I feel the nerves coursing through me. Why does this always happen? I’m an adult but some how, these family events have me feeling like that shy little girl in the sea of faces, unsure of myself and how I’m supposed to act. I know the… Read More
The pressures on Single women to get married
The incessant prayers, the constant reminders and the ultimatums, have become the reality of many single women, including myself. The external pressures have become an expected occurrence and often heighten our internal pressures to settle down. Over the past weeks, I’ve been sharing glimpses of some of the things that happen to single women. When I drew up this list,… Read More







