Productivity | Christian Lifestyle | Relationships
Valentine’s Day is one of those days when we are caught in a web of hope and emptiness. A hope for love and romance, and an inescapable emptiness when we don’t get it. There are times when we act like it means nothing but there is usually that niggling reminder that we would rather be in a relationship and share… Read More
There are many lies that we have heard and quite a few we have believed. Some of these lies are dressed so prettily that it’s almost impossible to detect them for what they are: falsehoods that have been perpetuated, knowingly and unknowingly, to deceive and confuse us. Now, the scary thing is that some of these lies relate to our… Read More
Read Part One yet? You can do so here. People often say our families are the one set of people we are stuck with forever. In good and in bad, we must remain, and on some days, I understand this. Afterall, I want to believe God had a reason for putting me in mine. Then, there are other days, such… Read More
As I walked into the gathering, silver stilettos against the white washed marble floors, I feel the nerves coursing through me. Why does this always happen? I’m an adult but some how, these family events have me feeling like that shy little girl in the sea of faces, unsure of myself and how I’m supposed to act. I know the… Read More
The incessant prayers, the constant reminders and the ultimatums, have become the reality of many single women, including myself. The external pressures have become an expected occurrence and often heighten our internal pressures to settle down. Over the past weeks, I’ve been sharing glimpses of some of the things that happen to single women. When I drew up this list,… Read More
Have you ever felt like your life were a rose bush without the roses? You can see the potential for beautiful and colourful flowers but they are yet to bud. Each year brings in more thorns than flowers. This is one of the realities of being single. We are reminded of one thing that has eluded us – marriage. We… Read More
One of the realities of being a single Christian woman is dealing with sexual temptation and sexual pressures. Perhaps, you have wondered how to manage a relationship where your boyfriend wants to sleep with you. Or maybe you just want to understand the Christian view of sex before marriage. If so, please read on. The reality of sexual temptation and… Read More
Do you believe that God loves you unconditionally and died to save you from a life of bondage and hopelessness? Do you live like you believe this? I ask these questions because I have seen that many of us are still lost, we are still burdened by our past hurts and mistakes. We walk around with this weight. An invisible… Read More
As a single woman, I have realized that there are certain struggles that are unique to us – the pressures to settle down. These external and internal pressures to settle down may cause us to feel inadequate and unwanted. On the one hand, there are hordes of people questioning our single status. Then there are moments when we question ourselves… Read More
