It started with a flight booking I had made. I had clicked on the Ms. option under the title section but received a confirmation email as Mrs Chioma Oparadike. This was not only incorrect but worrisome. Before this incident, I had had a similar encounter on a work trip. The ticket had been purchased by my firm, and when I… Read More
20 Inspiring Quotes for Single Women
As a single woman in my thirties, I can honestly say that there are many challenges (and opportunities) that come with living the Christian life, in the 21st century. These include relationship expectations, career goals, and just the dignity of living your truth in a world that expects you to conform. Some of these challenges are especially heightened when looked… Read More
Three ways to maximise your single life in 2023
I have heard people say 2020 was a difficult year for single women. Do you agree? It’s true that the restrictions on movement meant there were limited opportunities to meet other people. How did you navigate your love life with everything that was going on in 2020? You probably have some stories to tell, and I hope we catch up… Read More
Would you change your marital status if you could?
“She is woman, clothed in ivory, beautiful and purposeful but all they see is the ring on her left…” Can you imagine a world where one’s marital status was not an issue? Where a single or married woman could live her life fully, without stereotypes or misconceptions? This is not a riddle nor a contrived plan to ask trick questions… Read More
The enticing sweetness of a ‘bare minimum’ lifestyle
I will start off with a confession: I’m a bare minimum kinda girl. I often go out of my way to find the shortest and least intrusive way of getting things done. I have done this consistently in different areas of my life – school, work, relationships and even domestic chores. I do just enough so I am not labeled… Read More
25 Productive Activities for Single Women
I think one of the buzzwords for our generation is self-development, and for good reason. Our ability to develop ourselves and improve our productivity directly affects the quality and texture of our lives. And it does not matter if we are single or married. However, I am focusing on us single gals because what matters is not that we are… Read More
10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
Have you ever considered the things that make a relationship healthy? Do you ever lookout for signs of an unhealthy relationship? But before we get to these, let’s start from the beginning: What was your vision of romance, growing up? Perhaps, like me, you grew up on harlequin novels and hallmark movies; those gave us a picturesque view of love… Read More
10 Meaningful Ways to travel as a Single Woman
Ever had visions of you lounging by the beach with a drink in your hand and a book waiting to be read? Dreams of you walking through historic buildings, visiting the tomb of Christ, while also enjoying an array of delectable dishes? If you’re anything like me, then you love to travel. You love the chance to see different places… Read More
Letter to the single girl who feels unloved and forgotten
Dear one, I know you see them, the couples, the newly weds, all those who seem to be in love and have it all. You see the beauty around you and wonder why your life is different. Why you are all alone? Why no one sees you or wants you? In those moments, it’s easy to think you don’t matter…. Read More