We prepare for many things in life; careers, business ventures, ministry, even motherhood. Yet when it comes to marriage, we often assume that love alone will be enough. We long for a godly husband, a peaceful home, and a thriving relationship, but rarely pause to ask: Am I becoming the kind of woman God is calling me to be? Becoming… Read More
Your Engagement Is Not a Rehearsal for Marriage
I remember listening to a story by a Christian Youtuber who shared that when she got engaged, the Lord impressed upon her heart not to have sex with her fiance. It wasn’t like she had planned to, but the imprint was so strong that during a moment of weakness, when she may have otherwise succumbed, that reminder helped her stay… Read More
5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Preparing for Marriage
When many of us think about preparing for marriage, our minds often run to the practical things. Learn how to cook. Save money. Decorate your home. Maybe even pick up a few “how to be a good wife” books. And while all of those have their place, marriage requires preparation that goes much deeper than outward skills. What I wish… Read More
Have you counted the cost of marriage?
The world sold us a lie. A lie wrapped in romance, fairytales, and impossible loves. From Disney princesses to rom-coms, the script is often the same: a handsome man swoops in, sweeps the woman off her feet, and they ride into the sunset to “happily ever after.” But no one tells you what happens after the sunset. Many of us… Read More
Relationship Secret 21: How to Accept Your Partner’s Differences
One important factor for growth in any relationship is coming to terms with this simple reality: you and your partner are different. Even siblings raised under the same roof often have very different personalities, mannerisms, likes, and dislikes. If that’s true for people who share the same parents, how much more true will it be for two people from entirely… Read More
The third quality of a Kingdom Marriage
Qualities of a Godly Marriage Last week, we shared a blog about three important ingredients that make up a kingdom marriage. In that post, we defined a kingdom marriage as, “a marriage that is called, ordained, and sustained by God for the propagation of his kingdom and to bring heaven to earth.” We highlighted the three key stages from… Read More
What makes a God ordained marriage
Qualities of a God-ordained marriage aka a kingdom marriage A kingdom marriage is nothing without God. We can’t even call it a kingdom marriage if God is not a part of it. Let me rephrase, a kingdom marriage is not like any other kind of marriage. It is not about two people who decide to get married and then bring… Read More
A prayer for your future marriage.
How to pray for my future marriage Do you know that a prayer for your future marriage must start with you? It must start with a stripping away and a building up. In this current season of my life, I have sensed the Lord remind me time and again that: We do not understand His design for marriage. I… Read More
10 Questions to ask before you say ‘I DO’
Have you ever considered what it takes to prepare for marriage? I’m not talking about the big, fancy wedding, but about spending the rest of your life with someone. Most of us will agree that getting married is one of the biggest decisions we will ever make, yet there are many couples who go in unprepared. One way to prepare… Read More








