Qualities of a Godly Marriage Last week, we shared a blog about three important ingredients that make up a kingdom marriage. In that post, we defined a kingdom marriage as, “a marriage that is called, ordained, and sustained by God for the propagation of his kingdom and to bring heaven to earth.” We highlighted the three key stages from… Read More
What makes a God ordained marriage
Qualities of a God-ordained marriage aka a kingdom marriage A kingdom marriage is nothing without God. We can’t even call it a kingdom marriage if God is not a part of it. Let me rephrase, a kingdom marriage is not like any other kind of marriage. It is not about two people who decide to get married and then bring… Read More
A prayer for your future marriage.
How to pray for my future marriage Do you know that a prayer for your future marriage must start with you? It must start with a stripping away and a building up. In this current season of my life, I have sensed the Lord remind me time and again that: We do not understand His design for marriage. I… Read More
10 Questions to ask before you say ‘I DO’
Have you ever considered what it takes to prepare for marriage? I’m not talking about the big, fancy wedding, but about spending the rest of your life with someone. Most of us will agree that getting married is one of the biggest decisions we will ever make, yet there are many couples who go in unprepared. One way to prepare… Read More
How to pray for your future husband
Praying for your future spouse For a long time, I didn’t believe in praying for marriage or praying for my future spouse. I would usually shut out relationship advice or church events that were about praying for marriage. It took me many years to realize I had thrown the proverbial baby with the bath water. I had allowed the unhealthy… Read More
What I learned about Christian dating
It is almost a given, in today’s world, to be at some stage of the dating process – meet up, date, get into a relationship, court, get engaged, get married, breakup etc. It is even expected that dating and romantic relationships are a big part of our lives as single women, even when we are not actively looking. We also… Read More
10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
Have you ever considered the things that make a relationship healthy? Do you ever lookout for signs of an unhealthy relationship? But before we get to these, let’s start from the beginning: What was your vision of romance, growing up? Perhaps, like me, you grew up on harlequin novels and hallmark movies; those gave us a picturesque view of love… Read More
Three things you need in a Christ-centered Relationship
What comes to mind when you think about dating and relationships? How do you decide who to date? Perhaps, you are not yet dating but you have one or more guys you like or who have shown some interest. How are you managing these relationships? Sis, I ask these questions because I have realized that it is far easier to… Read More
Why do I want to get married?
A little while ago It started like any other networking event where you smile a lot, do the usual introductions and make small talk before you move on to the next person. While I was speaking with a middle-aged gentleman, I noticed a change in his expression and he goes on to ask me this: “Why are you not married?”… Read More