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I remember listening to a story by a Christian Youtuber who shared that when she got engaged, the Lord impressed upon her heart not to have sex with her fiance. It wasn’t like she had planned to, but the imprint was so strong that during a moment of weakness, when she may have otherwise succumbed, that reminder helped her stay… Read More
I’ve been learning about these two concepts — dating and courting — and I thought to share what I’ve discovered. While “dating” is the common term we all know today, it’s actually quite new in history. The first reference to “dating” showed up in a women’s journal in 1914, and since then, the idea has spread rapidly, shaping how modern… Read More
Let’s call her Ada. Ada met Tunde after church one Sunday. He was warm, funny, and seemed serious about his faith. He served on the ushering team, quoted Scripture with ease, and often said he wanted a God centered relationship. A few months in, the tone began to shift. Tunde started pressing Ada about sex. It began with small comments…. Read More
There are moments when the thought sneaks in: Maybe I missed my chance. Maybe it was that relationship I walked away from. Maybe it was because I was too focused on my career or too picky. Or maybe it’s simply because I’m not as young as I used to be. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, you’re not alone. For… Read More
Every relationship, whether dating, engaged, or married, comes with demands. There will be responsibilities, expectations, and countless to-do lists. Sometimes, it’s so easy to get caught up in those demands that we neglect the very thing that gives our relationship life in the first place. The idea of keeping first things first is simple but profound: Remember what matters most… Read More
Welcome back to the Relationship Secrets Series. I started this series in 2023 with a plan to share 30 christian relationship tips. I was only able to share 18 then, but have now decided to restart this series and complete the series (as part of my 100 blog posts in 100 days challenge). You can check out the other 18… Read More
This is why Christian dating is hard Do you ever feel like the dating scene is a proverbial jungle where only the strongest win? We are told to be open, friendly, and not too picky; these are all well-meaning tips, but the reality makes these suspect. I remember an experience from years ago, which left me questioning my choices. I’ve shared a little… Read More
When it comes to unhealthy romantic relationships in the Bible, the first couple that comes to mind is often Samson and Delilah. I remember reading the story a few years ago and trying to understand how Samson could have been so delusional. How do you keep telling yourself one thing when your reality is so different? I was quick to… Read More
Where are all the “good” single Christian men? Seriously, where are all the men who love the Lord and are committed to serving Him? Where are they hiding? Do they even exist or have we single Christian women been sold a load of hogwash? If you have been in the midst of other single Christian ladies then you’ve probably… Read More
