Hello sis, How are you doing? It’s been over 6 years since I started this blog and email newsletter. Wow! 2017 now feels like a lifetime ago, and for good reason. It was a year that defined me in a lot of ways. It was the year: • I lost my Dad. • I left […]
The who you know conspiracy
How who you know affects the trajectory of your life There is this popular idea in Nigeria that you can only progress past a point based on who you know. This thinking is so ingrained that there are those who believe they cannot achieve much if they do not know influential people. More so, there […]
Relationship Secret 18: You are not alone
What does it mean to feel alone? Have you had moments where you felt overwhelmed with everything going on around you, especially in your relationship? Moments where it felt like you had so much stuff to deal with but no means to unburden. You realise that there’s no one to turn to or talk to […]
RS 17: Avoid your tendency to overthink
How to avoid our tendency to overthink in our relationship. We have shared quite a bit these past few weeks, and there is a tendency that we may become overwhelmed by the information or the depth of what is required in a kingdom relationship. I certainly understand this. We may even wonder if any relationship […]
Relationship Secret 16: Get Accountability for your relationship
How to select a marriage mentor One of the best pieces of advice I received about godly relationships is that you should have someone who can hold you and your partner accountable to your responsibilities in the relationship. Let me explain. The Need for Accountability Accountability is the means of holding a person to […]
How to prepare for the relationship you want
How to prepare for marriage One of the secrets to a Christian relationship and a kingdom marriage is to be prepared for it. Preparation is the pathway to understanding and flourishing in what you are praying for. It is a bit more than that – it is the assurance (but for the grace of God) […]
RS14 – Cultivate the type of relationship you want
How to grow my romantic relationship. What kind of relationship do you want to have? Do you know the kinds of things you long to see in your relationship? Here’s the truth: many of us do not know what we want in a relationship. We have not been able to articulate these things in words. […]
RS 13 – Pursue your healing and wholeness
Hey friends, Welcome back to the Relationship Secrets Series. My sincere apologies for the brief break in transmission. We are back! Your openness to the work of healing and restoration will directly affect the health of your relationship. Most of us have had one or more unsavoury experiences from our past and may have been […]
How to apologise in a kingdom relationship
How to apologise in a Christian relationship Hey friend, Hope you’ve been enjoying the series. I have a few questions for you today: How are you with apologising? Is it something you are quick to do, or do you need Jesus to come down from heaven for you to say, “I’m sorry”? ? When you […]
Relationship Secret 11: Ask, don’t assume.
How to ask the right questions in your relationship Over the past few days, we have talked about many approaches to getting to know and understand your partner. The truth is that you can’t learn everything about someone at once, but over time, you can learn the things that matter. Additionally, this process of understanding […]
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